August 14, 2014 - submitted by Hermon, Ethiopia

Q. I met 3 guys that are perfect for me. One of them is everything I've ever dreamed of but he lives a continent away from me.
The second one makes me feel like I'm a princess and I deserve everything in the world. He calms me down when I'm angry and he's just the best thing that's ever happened to me. He tells me he luvs me everyday but he sees me just as a friend and now he moved to England but he's coming to visit for the summer.
The third guy I can tell anything to and is really funny but he has an anger management problem like me and I need a guy that can help me calm myself not worsen the fire.
I really don't know what to do. Can u help me Oracle? Thanks.


The Oracle replies:

None of these guys are perfect for you - if such a thing exists in relationships.
Perfect by definition means "having all the required or desirable elements, qualities, or characteristics; as good as it is possible to be."

If we look at the 3, they are therefore not perfect for you:

#1 lives a continent away and there was no mention of how he feels about you.
#2 sees you as a friend.
#3 has issues that you say aren't good because of your similar nature.

Just stay friends with these people who make you feel special & happy - I don't think you need to consider making a relationship with any of them.