May 1, 2015 / submitted by The Oracle, United Kingdom

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There's a guy who seems really interested in me, and he's kind and all, I kind of like him, but I'm not really sure if I want a relationship. However I'm 20, and I've never had a relationship before, and it just feels like once I have to have one. I have to start somewhere, and somehow it just feels very fast.
Should I try and go along with it, hoping it will actually turn out to be good, or not being sure about it should be a warning sign?
How can I know if I'm ready?
Thanks for your answer in advance, Liza, Hungary.

Look forward to reading your replies.

The Oracle.
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